“None of It Turned Out the Way She Wanted, So It Left a Hole in Me”: Informal Caregiving at the End of Life in Contexts of Inequity
Abstract
Palliative care is undergoing shifts to identify and respond to social and structural inequities. Caregiving in a palliative context is steeped in assumptions that those who provide care are biologically or legally (biolegal) related, well-resourced, and able to balance the many demands of work and life with caregiving. As families in the Western world change, people are increasingly looking outside their biolegal families for care. This is common among people experiencing homelessness, but little is known about how this translates at the end of life. To address this knowledge gap, we undertook an ethnographic study informed by critical perspectives, integrating social justice and health equity approaches. Over a period of 27 months, approximately 300 h of observation and 44 interviews were conducted with service providers, clients, and caregivers in three Canadian cities. We found that caregiving in contexts of inequity challenges dominant understandings of palliative caregiving. Rather than a biolegal family, people with life-limiting conditions were found to be accessing care from a constellation of formal and informal caregivers (e.g., friends, neighbors, and spouses). For this analysis, we focus on exploring the experiences of unrelated, informal caregivers, with thematic findings illustrating three main aspects: (1) Relationships and roles in informal caregiving, (2) identifying and perceiving informal caregivers, and (3) biolegal privileging and exclusion of unrelated caregivers. For palliative care to improve the quality of life of people who face inequities and their caregivers, there is a need to better identify, engage, and support all of those who participate in care at the end of life regardless of whether they are biologically or legally related.
Summary
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What is known about this topic?
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Despite years of calls and efforts to better support caregivers in palliative contexts, caregivers continue to face burdens and inequities in access to services. This is particularly the case for caregivers who do not fit dominant assumptions about caregiving in Canada, namely, that caregivers are biologically or legally related to the person they are caring for, well-resourced, financially and educationally, and are able to adequately balance other employment, family, and community roles and responsibilities with care work.
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What does this paper add?
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This paper contributes to a relatively new body of research on “family” caregiving in contexts of homelessness at the end of life challenging existing assumptions about who is providing informal care and how that care happens. While this study focuses on populations experiencing poverty and homelessness, given the growing inequality and social and demographic shifts in family and caregiving, these findings may become increasingly relevant.
1. Introduction
Palliative care is, in its “equity” turn, focused on seeing and responding to social and structural inequities that are embedded in policy and practice [1–4]. As such, there is a growing need to challenge assumptions embedded in palliative care as a way to expose inequities and, most importantly, address them. Caregiving in the palliative care context, for instance, is steeped in assumptions that informal1 caregivers are biologically or legally related to the person they are caring for, are well-resourced, financially and educationally, and are able to adequately balance other employment, family, and community roles and responsibilities with care work [5]. These assumptions reflect the expectation that caregiving relationships stem from the nuclear family model, a husband and wife, cohabitating with children, as the standard kinship model and mechanism for organizing society [6–8]. However, social and demographic shifts in the Western world are challenging the nuclear family model and changing the way that care occurs [5, 9–11]. These shifts have prompted renewed interest in how older adults expand their social networks for care and support beyond biolegal2 family [6, 12–14] including at the end of life [15–17]. For palliative care to improve the quality of life of caregivers alongside the person with life-limiting illness [18], there is a need to better see, engage with, and support the various people who are willing and able to enact “family” caregiver roles.
Contemporary conceptualizations of the “family” in family caregiving have received some attention in palliative care. Efforts towards two-spirit3, lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender, and queer (2SLGBTQ) inclusivity and justice, for instance, have advanced understandings of “family” caregiving beyond biological and legal relatedness [19–23]. In reference to caregivers, often both family and friends are included, and, in some cases, family is defined broadly (e.g., “chosen” family) [22, 24, 25]. In research with people positioned as structurally vulnerable, the term “street family” is increasingly being used [26] to recognize the “family-like” bonds amongst people living homeless to meet social, emotional, and material needs [27, 28]. Research in contexts of homelessness indicates that diverse groups of people may be providing care at the end of life. These groups include workers (e.g., housing/shelter, support/outreach, health, and harm reduction) [29–32], unrelated people (e.g., friends, neighbors, chosen, or street family) [26], and biolegal family [26, 32–34]. Advancing equity in palliative care requires a deeper understanding of how family and caregiving are conceptualized among people facing social and structural inequities.
Building on nearly a decade of research alongside people with life-limiting conditions and their caregivers in contexts of inequity (e.g., poverty, homelessness, and racism) [26, 35, 36], our team and community partners have identified “family” caregiving as a key area in need of research in order to develop evidenced-informed recommendations for health and social care systems. In the Canadian context, this paper may lend evidence to the enduring need to better support families and caregivers and to improve equitable access to palliative care as set out in Health Canada’s Framework on Palliative Care in Canada [37], the Action Plan on Palliative Care [38], and subsequent reports [38–41]4. In this paper, we contribute to a relatively new body of research on “family” caregiving in contexts of homelessness at the end of life challenging existing assumptions about who is providing informal care and how that care happens. While this study focuses on populations experiencing poverty and homelessness, given the growing inequality and social and demographic shifts in family and caregiving, these findings may become increasingly relevant.
2. Materials and Methods
2.1. Methodology
This analysis is part of a larger ethnographic study titled, “Caregiving for vulnerable and marginalized older adults at the end of life” (CIHR, PJT—173369), which is taking place in three Canadian cities (Oct 2021–Sept 2025) and aims to characterize caregiving at the end of life for people experiencing structural vulnerability5. Our research teams’ interests in family and caregiving stemmed from over a decade of research exploring end-of-life experiences of people facing health and social inequities [32, 35, 42]. The current analysis, led by the lead author (Ashley Mollison), represents one analysis out of this larger study and comprises part of Ashley Mollison’s PhD dissertation.
Our methodological approach is ethnography informed by critical theoretical perspectives and integrates social justice and health equity approaches. While there is no one single definition, all ethnographies tend to have a common research approach, which centers on people in their “natural” context, employing unstructured data collection and a range of data sources, and utilizes smaller sample sizes and in-depth cases in order to understand how people make sense of their world [43–45]. Unlike some ethnography that tends to present deep, apolitical descriptions, critical ethnographies recognize the political nature of health and social institutions and the ideologies that underlie them [45]. Critical approaches lend themselves well to social justice aims to both understand and address how power embedded in institutional and social processes makes people vulnerable to health risk and poor health outcomes [42, 46, 47]. Critical ethnography involves turning the gaze toward research itself and being reflexive about how power and discourse shape what we see in the field and what we interpret as truth [44]. These approaches encourage not just critical examination of structures and systems but challenge researchers to unpack their assumptions and be critically reflexive in the research process to avoid further harming participants already facing structural violence [48].
Social justice and health equity approaches encourage researchers to understand health and social issues as a product of social and structural inequalities [42, 49]. Rather than seeing differences in health access and outcomes between groups of people as “natural” or the result of genetics or behavior, these differences are recognized as unfair and unjust because they rely on systemic devaluating and privileging of groups of people [50]. Racism, sexism, homophobia, ableism, and other processes embedded in economic, political, health, and social structures mean that people do not have the same access to the conditions for good health [42, 50]. Despite (or in spite of) these inequities, people and communities facing historical and ongoing oppression have developed strategies for survival that we have a lot to learn from [51]. In relation to our area of study, caregiving is understood within a broader context of undervalued “care” work that is gendered, racialized, and classed [52]. Yet, people continue to care for each other and push back against dominant ideology, concepts, and approaches that define what care is and who the caregivers are or should be.
2.2. Data Collection
Research partners include equity-oriented palliative teams in three cities whose clinical practice focuses on people facing poverty, homelessness, racism, criminalization, and discrimination along with life-limiting conditions. Prior to data collection, several meetings were held between research team members and community partners to codevelop research processes (e.g., study advertisement and participant recruitment). The research team shaping and carrying out the observations all identified as White women, housed, and with financial and social resources to render us systemically privileged. The lead author has held various roles over the last 15 years in relation to homelessness such as a volunteer, community organizer, caregiver, worker, and researcher. In planning stages and during the data collection period, several scheduled meetings and unscheduled debriefs were held among members of the data collection team in an effort to critically analyze issues of power and privilege and how those experiences shaped data collection, analysis, and thematic development. Once the study received ethics approval (H22-00313 (BC/ON); HREBA. CHC-22-0032 (AB)), data collection was initiated with three main groups: members of equity-oriented palliative teams (e.g., physicians, nurses, psychiatrists, and outreach workers), clients and their informal caregivers, and other formal (paid) caregivers (e.g., shelter/housing workers, support/outreach workers, and case managers)6.
2.3. Equity-Oriented Palliative Teams
In-depth interviews with members of the equity-oriented palliative teams were completed to seek insights on their everyday work in relation to family and caregiving (see Interview Guide in Supporting Information (here)). These interviews lasted approximately 60 min and were recorded and transcribed verbatim. Following interviews and preliminary analysis, we began attending clinical rounds where teams discussed client cases including care coordination, system barriers, relational challenges, and broader issues around care and support. After observing rounds for several months, we observed team members in their work settings (e.g., shelters, housing units, health units, and on the streets). Fieldnotes were handwritten and then transcribed. We focused on the settings, activities, acts (what people were doing), events, and time and included reflexive notes that captured broader concepts around family and caregiving, how our positionality as researchers shaped observations [48], as well as lines of enquiry for future data collection.
2.4. Clients and Caregivers
The equity-oriented palliative teams were asked to identify and, with their consent, introduce us to clients who may have a “somebody” in their life who was offering care or support to them. It was emphasized that these people did not need to be biolegally related nor considered by the client or supporter to be a “caregiver.”7 Once the connection with the client was made, we obtained written, informed consent and prioritized relationship building. We met with participants in various settings including health clinics and social service agencies, outdoors, restaurants/coffee shops, and their homes. Engagement also included texts and phone calls that were documented in in-depth fieldnotes. As relationships were built with the client, we sought permission to engage with others in their life who were providing them with some sort of support. Depending on the comfort and permissions from the client, we met with the caregiver either together with, or separately from, the client. Occasionally, we were connected with a caregiver after the death of a client so, in these cases, we engaged solely with the caregiver. We engaged in longitudinal data collection (observations and interviews) with clients and caregivers approximately once every 4–6 weeks for 15 months (July 2023–November 2024), but engagement fluctuated including intensifying in periods of crisis or if things were changing quickly for people (e.g., functional decline). Observations lasted no longer than 2 h at a time. We often recorded conversations and then transcribed them into fieldnotes resulting in verbatim quotes. All clients and caregivers were offered a $50 cash honorarium per visit (observation or interview). Honorariums were often supplemented with coffee and food to show appreciation for the time that people took to participate in research and were also aligned with the justice-oriented approach in being responsive to food insecurity for many clients/caregivers.
2.5. Other Service Providers
Other service providers were found to be involved in caregiving and support during our observations with clients and caregivers. In these cases, we sought consent for observations. In other cases, clients and caregivers identified service providers in their circle of care and support and we thus obtained consent and conducted in-depth interviews with these providers (see Interview Guide in Supporting Information (here)). Interviews followed the same interview guide as equity-oriented palliative teams, were approximately 60 min, and were recorded and transcribed verbatim. Service providers were offered a $50 cash honorarium per interview if they were participating in research outside of their work time.
While the larger study is ongoing, this analysis is based on data collected over a 27-month period (August 2022–November 2024). During this study period, approximately 300 h of observation and 44 interviews were conducted with members of equity-oriented palliative care teams (n = 20), clients living with life-limiting conditions (n = 8), caregivers (n = 10), and service providers (n = 44).
2.6. Analysis
Consistent with an ethnographic approach, we utilized reflexive thematic analysis [53] to generate themes. The analysis began by purposefully selecting two client cases that illustrated diverse caregiving scenarios. The in-depth cases included instances where the individual’s situation was discussed in clinical rounds, observations and interviews with the person, their caregiver, and service providers. An analytic subgroup composed of three data collectors (Ashley Mollison, Alexandra Stewart, and Amber Bourgeois) and two members of the broader research team (Marilou Gagnon and Kelli I. Stajduhar) read the compiled data and independently developed a “big bucket” coding scheme. The core analytic team discussed and came to a consensus on the development of the preliminary coding scheme. This coding scheme was tested, revised, and refined several times until producing a final scheme that was then thematically applied to the entire dataset of interviews and observational fieldnotes using NVivo 14 qualitative data analysis software. Overtime, through observations and interviews, patterns began to emerge that were tested and reformulated utilizing inductive and deductive analysis [54]. Data on remaining clients and caregivers were compiled into cases and read repeatedly to inform the thematic analysis. Coding of the remaining data was conducted (Ashley Mollison, Alexandra Stewart, and Amber Bourgeois), supported by the broader analytic team. The analysis in this paper stems from a two-bucket code called “Family” and “Seeing and engaging the caregivers.” Themes were developed and interrogated by the broader research team and community partners, then revised, and refined.
3. Results
All clients, and the majority of caregivers, were receiving government income support or disability benefits and accessed formal care from service providers with a mandate to meet the health and social needs of people facing barriers to care due to poverty, homelessness8, racism, stigma, and isolation (see Tables 1 and 2 for salient characteristics). Based on our analysis, we found that caregiving in these contexts challenged current assumptions embedded in palliative care that the biolegal family takes on the bulk of care at the end of life. Instead, participants accessed care from a constellation of formal (paid) and informal (unpaid) people (e.g., neighbors, friends, and partners/spouses). In the following, we focus on the unpaid, informal caregivers illustrating three thematic findings: (1) Relationships and roles in informal caregiving, (2) identifying and perceiving informal caregivers, and (3) biolegal privileging and exclusion of unrelated caregivers. Consistent with an ethnographic writing style, we weave interview quotes and fieldnote excerpts to illustrate these findings9.
Characteristics | Number of participants |
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Gender | |
Man | 7 |
Woman | 1 |
Age | |
Average age | 66 |
Age range | 55–71 |
Ethnicity | |
White | 8 |
Relationship status | |
Single | 4 |
Married or common-law | 1 |
Divorced or separated | 2 |
Widowed | 1 |
Housing type on entry to study | |
Market rental1 | 1 |
Supportive housing | 3 |
Transitional housing | 2 |
Living rough2 | 2 |
Primary life-limiting condition | |
Cancer | 5 |
COPD | 2 |
Cirrhosis | 1 |
Mental health condition | |
Yes | 5 |
No | 3 |
Active substance use challenge | |
Yes | 6 |
No | 2 |
Living with one or more disability (e.g., cognitive and physical) | |
Yes | 4 |
No | 3 |
Unsure | 1 |
- 1Including those accessing financial support to subsidize market rental.
- 2Referring to living in a shelter, outside, vehicle, etc.
Characteristics | Number of participants |
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Gender | |
Man | 6 |
Woman | 4 |
Age1 | |
Average age | 62 |
Age range | 51–75 |
Ethnicity | |
White | 7 |
Indigenous | 3 |
Relationship status | |
Single | 3 |
Married or common-law | 4 |
Divorced or separated | 2 |
Widowed | 1 |
Relationship to person with life-limiting condition | |
Friend | 6 |
Spouse or common-law | 2 |
Ex-partner | 1 |
Biolegal family member | 1 |
Housing type on entry to study | |
Market rental2 | 5 |
Supportive housing | 2 |
Living rough3 | 2 |
Owned home | 1 |
Mental health condition | |
Yes | 5 |
No | 5 |
Active substance use challenge | |
Yes | 5 |
No | 5 |
Living with one or more disability or chronic health conditions | |
Yes | 8 |
No | 2 |
- 1Based on 8 participants due to missing age data.
- 2Including those accessing financial support to subsidize market rental.
- 3Referring to living in a shelter, outside, vehicle, etc.
3.1. Relationships and Roles in Informal Caregiving
Of the 10 caregivers included in this study, 6 were friends, 3 were spouses/partners or ex-partners, and 1 was a biological sibling. Despite this categorization, there was fluidity in the nonbiolegal relationships. In some cases, people drew on concepts of love, support, and even family-like terms to define their unrelated relationships. Many friend relationships were longstanding and shifted with the requirement for care. For instance, Sasha was a childhood friend of Russ, a 61-year-old White man, and became the primary caregiver when he was diagnosed with advanced lung cancer while homeless. Sasha provided instrumental and emotional support to Russ including transportation and accompaniment to medical appointments, housing him and his dog for periods of time, food preparation, social outings, light housekeeping, and agreeing to be his decision-maker; yet, their relationship was complicated and “on and off” during the year and a half our team spent engaged in Russ’ life. They eventually had a falling out and ended their friendship as Russ declined and approached the end of life.
Mark, a 59-year-old White man with advanced COPD and schizophrenia, and Robert, a White man in his 50s, lived in separate units in the same subsidized housing facility. Mark shared that while he had known Robert for 20 years, “the caregiving part of their relationship was quite recent due to his declining health” (Fieldnote). While Mark had access to formal palliative care services, Robert stepped up to provide more support with personal, social, and instrumental care as Mark declined including companionship, food and supply runs, and cooking.
“Dwayne went on, “Well they got caregivers, but they only come around once in a while, and they don’t really give a shit.” I clarified that Dwayne meant the “paid support” and he confirmed. “They are PAID to do it,” Dwayne added, emphasizing the word “Paid.” He said that Bill told him that the caregivers come in to do a quick clean of the place and then walk out the door. “He can always call me, and I’d come down and say, “what do you need?” (Fieldnote)”
Dwayne associated care with “just being human” and saw it as making up for his troubled past. On the day of Bill’s planned MAiD death, they sat together all day, telling stories, and listening to music until Bill died.
Rather than distinct caregiver or care recipient roles, informal caregiving in this context reflected more of a community care model, where various people (including the person living with a life-limiting condition) engaged in reciprocal care exchanges, helping each other out whenever a need arises. These participants often drew on their past or lifetime experiences of care to describe relationships, approaches, and motivations for care. Carla, a 53-year-old Indigenous woman, described her care for a man in his 70s, a former shelter worker whom she met when she was homeless. She went to his place 1-2 times per week, emptied the garbage, did his dishes, swept his floor, and did his laundry. Rather than unidirectional care, Carla described a “give and take” in a relationship that had initiated as service provider/client but developed into a friendship over the years.
The case of Ronald, a White man, and David, an Indigenous man, both in their 60s, illustrated another mutual care relationship without a clear distinction between caregiver and care recipient. Ronald lived with multiple comorbidities and was labeled “failure to thrive” by his palliative care team, while David lived with mental health and substance use issues resulting in ongoing falls and hospitalizations. An outreach worker told us that they were “best friends” and that they met each other in their subsidized housing facility. Beginning as “drinking buddies,” their relationship grew as they visited each other in the hospital, provided each other emotional support, and shared the costs of groceries and supplies. During an observation, David told us, “I look out for him, and he looks out for me.”
Far from being the sole caregiver in the palliative context, we witnessed informal caregivers supplementing care by formal workers (e.g., palliative teams, housing workers, and case managers) to provide check-ins, supply runs, conversation, and emotional and mental health support to one another.
3.2. Identifying and Perceiving Informal Caregivers
Service providers supporting people in contexts of inequity acknowledged that there is a lack of understanding and visibility of informal networks of support in mainstream healthcare. According to a palliative care physician, “As someone who works in mainstream healthcare, I will tell you that often there is an absolute lack of recognition of the street family caregiving network.” Service providers went further to report instances of discrimination and stigma that friends and street family experience when attempting to carry out caregiving roles such as accompaniment or visits in mainstream health settings.
Beyond mainstream health settings, barriers to caregiving were identified in community settings. Two caregivers faced barriers accessing the housing units of the people they were caring for due to policies preventing them from holding another resident’s keys. While Sasha lamented the fact that building management would not provide her with a key to her friend’s suite, Dwayne took it upon himself to hold his friend’s keys against the wishes of management creating tension between him and his housing provider. Another caregiver was banned from the housing and healthcare facility where her spouse was living, forcing them to see one another outside the building. These examples illustrate how policies and practices can contribute to a lack of recognition and significance of caregiving roles.
“We talked a bit more about Mark. She noted that his friend Robert seemed to be sworn to secrecy as he had mentioned Mark’s fall briefly yesterday during their visit and she had observed some eye contact between the two before Robert retracted what he had shared. (Fieldnote)”
This incident speaks to the ways in which caregiving can be kept intentionally invisible for fear of exposing vulnerability or of eviction from community settings due to higher medical needs.
While many service providers recognized the value of “street family,” a common theme was the concern about the stability of these relationships, the nature of the care provided, and the impact of this caring work on the caregiver and the person living with life-limiting conditions.
“If someone lives in the community there’s very few programs that will allow more than one person on the lease, and even long-term partners, there’s always (the question) of, is there going to be family violence? And is this safe? And I totally can understand those things, but I think it comes back to that whole defining for people how they have to live their life because we’re like, this is what’s best for you?”
“It’s nice that they kinda look after each other in the building but it becomes problematic because these are also people who are also very ill themselves. So you kinda get a “blind leading the blind situation.” This isn’t actually helping them. This is enabling them.”
“And, you know, certainly like, tricky situations where maybe if there’s more of like, some abusive dynamics in the relationship, and those abusive dynamics are continuing to exist even as this person is dying, that can be super challenging. And particularly where within that the patient is saying, “Yes, this isn’t perfect, but I want this person here, I want their support.” It then leaves this really sort of confusing space for those of us around them trying to support them, where it’s like, what is our responsibility to sort of disrupt this, versus what is our responsibility to respect the stated wishes. (Fieldnote)”
Beyond service providers expressing concern at these kinds of situations, our analysis also revealed instances of institutions mobilizing policy and practices to respond and separate people from their chosen caregivers. We also saw examples of institutions making exceptions to policy and practice (e.g., guest policies) to enable connection to caregivers if the person was perceived as helpful or beneficial to the client.
3.3. Biolegal Privileging and Exclusion of Unrelated Caregivers
In contrast to dominant characteristics ascribed to family (e.g., care, love, loyalty, and support), our participants shared stories of harm and violence from their families (e.g., families of origin, foster care families, and adopted families). Russ, for instance, shared with us his poor lifetime experiences with family including abuse in childhood, attempted and failed family connections, and the implications of this on his end-of-life wishes. None of his biolegal family members lived close to Russ, nor visited, nor provided personal, instrumental, or emotional care to him at the end of life. Russ had elected to do MAiD and indicated that he did not want his family to attend. Instead, he received support from formal palliative care services, members of an equity-oriented palliative care team, a volunteer, friends such as Sasha, and neighbors.
While biolegal families were rarely present for everyday care, people living with life-limiting conditions were not often fully estranged from their family members. In a palliative context, some participants received calls from family; others expressed knowing that they could call family if they were in need. In some cases, the desire to connect with family grew as the person approached the end of life highlighting how, despite estrangement, family reconnection and reconciliation can, for some people, become more important overtime.
When we met Donna, a 58-year-old White woman with advanced lung cancer, and her partner, Max, a 64-year-old White man, they were living at a shelter while she accessed daily cancer treatment. Out of a large family that lived in the province, Donna was only in communication with one of her three children but expressed being able to call her family if she really needed them for “moral support.” As Donna got sicker, reconnecting with family became more important to her, and her equity-oriented palliative team supported Donna and Max to attend her family reunion before she died.
“So, people-and sometimes the biological family, you know, hasn’t been connected with them since, for a long time, and then they get diagnosed with some sort of life-limiting illness and then all of a sudden, people start to come out of the woodwork. And sometimes that’s good, and sometimes that can be challenging.”
“(…) A situation where perhaps some, you know, a patient has been living with their girlfriend for years and years, and she’s always been the chosen family, and she’s been the main support. And then this palliative diagnosis comes in, and suddenly the patient’s mom and aunt are on the phone saying, you know, “Hey, we heard that you’re sick, we really want to come see you.” And so, they do, and they start spending time together (…) and that almost sort of overshadows the relationship with the girlfriend that’s been there for so many years. And it’s not that the girlfriend isn’t around anymore or isn’t trying to support, but there’s just a sort of (pause) a sort of unspoken stepping back to just let the family relationships sort of happen for that person.”
While these informal caregivers sometimes felt that “stepping back” was appropriate, our findings suggest that more commonly, previously estranged or uninvolved biolegal family not only came out of the woodwork at the end of life but also “took over” care. When this occurred, unrelated caregivers felt excluded, even though they were important to people living with life-limiting conditions and their care. One case presented conflict between an estranged family and Jacob, a 7-year-old man and close friend of Roxana, a 55-year-old woman who died of advanced cancer. While Roxana wanted Jacob to be her executor, he was not legally documented as such. When Roxana was admitted to the hospital at the end of her life, the hospital staff called her estranged mom and sister following the next of kin policy and legislation.
““None of it turned out the way she wanted, so it left a hole in me. I felt like I failed. But I can’t blame myself. It’s something I have to accept… so I hope she’s not disappointed up there.” I asked him if her ashes went back with the family, and he said he had “no idea.” I asked if he tried telling them what her wishes were and he said, “I tried, but they hung up.” And repeated, “Already taken care of. (Her sister) took care of it. Cremated the same day.” (Fieldnote)”
As this case illustrates, reunification was not always a choice of the person or their family but rather a consequence of family members being considered next of kin or listed as emergency contact activated by health, palliative, and legal systems. Roxana died in the hospital, and the hospital staff had contacted her biolegal family to begin postdeath arrangements.
We found that unrelated people took on important care roles but faced challenges being legitimized as informal caregivers. To mitigate some of these challenges, equity-oriented palliative care teams did what they could to support friends and chosen family who stepped in to provide care at the end of life. In the case of Jacob, the equity-oriented care team supported him emotionally, with a housing application, and held some of Roxanna’s belongings while Jacob was unhoused. For Dwayne, the team checked in with him during the end of life and death of his friend, Bill, and supported him with postdeath arrangements. Where people had spouses/partners involved in their care, equity-oriented palliative teams advocated for housing and income support for both people; in the case of Ronald and David, the team advocated for them to be housed together in the same assisted living facility. These teams faced challenges, however, in their support for caregivers due to constraints on time and resources and a lack of access to legal and financial support to legitimize the role of unrelated caregivers for participation in end-of-life and postdeath care.
4. Discussion
The first principle guiding the Framework for Palliative Care in Canada is that palliative care is person and family-centered care [37]. While “family” is increasingly defined broadly and inclusive of caregivers regardless of their relationship, findings from this study suggest a need to continuously critically examine assumptions that may be embedded and maintain inequities in palliative contexts. Estrangement from biolegal family sets the stage for workers and unrelated people (e.g., neighbors, friends, and partners) to fill larger and more important caregiving roles at the end of life. Caregivers described their relationships of mutual support, but as caregiving tasks increased and intensified, unrelated people did what they could to supplement formal care. Unrelated caregivers were subject to others’ perceptions of their relationships and roles, and combined with biolegal privileging in systems, could be excluded from end-of-life and postdeath care. Previously estranged, biolegal family could be seen as “coming out of the woodwork” at the end of life and, in some cases, taking over care and contributing to exclusions of unrelated caregivers.
Our study reinforces another principle guiding the Framework on Palliative Care in Canada that caregivers are both providers and recipients of care. The distinction between caregiver and care recipient did not reflect the realities of many of the friends and neighbors who cared for one another in this study. While some people used family-like terms to describe these relationships, most people used the term, “friend.” Nelson [55] recognizes that while the line between family-like relations and friends can be blurry, the “legitimate authority” to make decisions on another person may be present in the family-like as opposed to the friend relationship11. This “authority” is further hampered in contexts of social and structural inequity where housing and healthcare policy, discrimination, racism, and other factors can contribute to the structural exclusion of caregivers [26, 56, 57]. People facing life-limiting illness can, theoretically, appoint their decision-makers; yet in contexts of inequity, people lack access to administrative, legal, and financial support to support their stated wishes. this study highlights both the important need to scale up advance care planning adapted to underserved populations and develop mechanisms to ensure that these wishes are legitimized and followed.
4.1. Implications for Policy, Practice, and Research
There are increasing commitments to meet the palliative needs of underserved communities [4, 37, 39] alongside a recognition of how older adults are expending their networks beyond biolegal family for care and support [14–17, 58]. Additional attention and innovative approaches will be required to see, engage, and support unrelated, informal caregivers, many of whom face similar Social Determinants of Health needs as the people they care for alongside discrimination, racism, health conditions, and disabilities [26]. Compassionate community approaches [59, 60] have been suggested as a key strategy for meeting the palliative needs of more people [37, 41] and inspiring examples exist of projects that draw on the inherent strengths of community to care for each other in contexts of inequity and serious illness [61]. Despite challenging and estranged relationships in life, the end-of-life phase can present the conditions for family reunification [26, 62]. Our findings suggest a need to build capacity for trauma- and violence-informed care [63] and culturally safer and antiracist approaches [64–67] in palliative care to adequately attend to relationships and histories with family and community disconnection and reconnection (see also [68, 69]). Supporting the “caregiver constellation” will require supportive policies and practices that consider and mitigate diverse caregiver needs given differential access to power and resources. Future research may investigate where this phenomenon has happened before (e.g., among the chosen families caring for those dying during the AIDS epidemic) and how exclusions of relationships that are not biologically or legally sanctioned leave lasting adverse impacts on caregivers such as disenfranchised grief [70, 71]. Largely unexplored in the study was the experiences of biolegal family, previously estranged, who came on the scene at the end of life or postdeath, which is an area of future study.
5. Conclusions
Equity-oriented palliative approaches to care [4, 42, 72] encourage attending to social and structural inequities that shape the ways in which people are able to give and receive care. These approaches encourage advocacy and partnerships to address inequities and improve the quality of life and death for people and their caregivers. In Western healthcare systems built on normative definitions of family, the legally and biologically related families often become the default group for health and palliative care engagement, communication, and decision-making. There is a need to examine and ameliorate biolegal bias in law and legislation, health and social policies, and caregiver benefits that contribute to the structural exclusion of people unrelated by birth or adoption to their caregivers and whose relationships are biologically and legally unrecognized. While challenging “business as usual,” we can turn our attention to existing models that value care work beyond the nuclear family including eous approaches to journeying into the spirit world [40, 65, 67, 73], compassionate communities [59, 60], 2SLGBTQ experiences and preferences for end of life care [19, 23, 25], and other community care models. Rather than putting more on biolegal family caregivers, we must look for new models of care in communities that have practiced expanded definitions of family, or who have dismissed the idea of family altogether, and who care for one another despite, or in spite of, social and structural inequities.
Conflicts of Interest
The authors declare no conflicts of interest.
Funding
This work was supported by the Canadian Institutes of Health Research: Project Grant (PJT-173369), the Government of Canada: Doctoral: Vanier Canada Graduate Scholarship (CGV-169854), and the Canada Research Chairs Program (Dr. Kelli I. Stajduhar).
Acknowledgments
The authors would like to thank all participants who gave their time and energy to this study. The authors also acknowledge the equity-oriented palliative care teams who so graciously shared their trust and connections and introduced us to clients and caregivers and the broader research team for their insights, support, and direction as this study progressed.
Endnotes
1In this paper, informal means “unpaid” and is used interchangeably with “family” caregiver.
2We use the short-hand “biolegal” [10], to refer to families who are biologically and/or legally connected to one another through birth, marriage, or adoption.
3Two-spirit is a term created by Indigenous peoples to recognize the diverse sexualities, gender identities, expressions, and roles that exist across Indigenous nations [74].
4In 2022, the Canadian Partnership Against Cancer [40] released a report foregrounding First Nations, Inuit, and Métis approaches to palliative and end-of-life care in Canada and acknowledged particular barriers to palliative care for urban Indigenous homeless populations; yet, this is an area of further needed research.
5Structural vulnerability recognizes how systemic racism, classism, heterosexism, ableism, and other processes create inequities in access to healthcare and the conditions for good health [42, 46, 47].
6While we interviewed members of equity-oriented palliative teams in all three sites, we carried out all the data collection with clients and informal caregivers and other formal (paid) service providers in two cities.
7While not all “somebodies” identified as caregivers in this study, we use the language of caregivers throughout to distinguish from client participants.
8People living with life-limiting conditions in this study and their caregivers met the Canadian definition of homelessness including those living unsheltered, in temporary and transitional settings, or at risk of homelessness [75]. While Indigenous homelessness was not a focus of this study, three of our caregiver participants identified as Indigenous. According to the Indigenous definition of homelessness in Canada, homelessness is more than the absence of shelter and includes other domains such as dispossession from land, culture, and ceremony and spiritual disconnection and mental disruption [68].
9Pseudonyms are used below to maintain the confidentiality of client and caregiver participants.
10Medical Assistance in Dying refers to a process in Canada enabling eligible people to get assistance with ending their life.
11This legitimacy also extends to those who are able to access financial benefits in the Canadian system. In 2017, Employment and Social Development Canada broadened the definition of who could receive Compassionate Care benefits from “family member” to include “like a family member.” While this definitional expansion is welcome, friends and other caregiving relationships seemingly continue to face systemic exclusion.
Supporting Information
Interview guide used in in-depth interviews with members of equity-oriented palliative care teams and other service providers.
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Data Availability Statement
The data are not available due to privacy or ethical restrictions.